To My Future Wife

I don’t know who you are yet. I don’t know what you look like. I don’t know the color of your eyes. I don’t know the color of your skin. I don’t know your name. There are a lot of things that I don’t know about you, but there are a couple of things that I want you to know.

You’re Already Beautiful. Congratulations, babe, you did it. You are already beautiful. Seriously. If beauty is a game, you’re a pro. You are perfect already. You were beautifully and wonderfully made. You have nothing to fix. Let me say that again, you have nothing to fix. God did not mess-up on you. I know what society is telling you. ”You have to look like this, wear this, and have this in order to be beautiful.” Nope. You’re already beautiful. Beauty is more than what you put on in the morning. You don’t need to lose weight to be beautiful. You don’t need to pack on the make-up to be beautiful. You don’t need to have all the curves installed to be beautiful. You don’t need to have perfect skin to be beautiful. You don’t need to act a certain way to be beautiful. You don’t need to wear certain clothes to be beautiful and you definitely don’t need to take them off to be beautiful. Oh, and you don’t need to have sex with me to be beautiful. You’re already beautiful. Feel free to grow to be a better, healthier, more confident you. In fact, I encourage it. But let me remind you that when it comes to being beautiful, you already won. You are beautifully and wonderfully made.

Babe, keep your goodies in your basket. I get it. I really do. When you have a nice car you want to show it off. If you have a nice body, likewise, you want to show it off. But, what makes a Lamborghini stand out from a Honda Civic? I see Civics all the time. Everywhere I go there is one of those bad boys sitting in the parking lot. I can count on one hand every Lamborghini I’ve ever seen. It is always exciting to see one of those. The Honda, not so much. Don’t get me wrong, your goodies are always going to be good. I’ll say that again, your goodies are always going to be good. But, if everyone and my mom has a look at everything you’re showing off, I’m not feeling like as much of a lucky ducky. So please, for me, keep your goodies packaged away.

You’re a princess worth fighting for. I said “princess.” You know, the princess you always wanted to be as a little girl? Yep, that’s you! But here is the deal, if you are a princess, you have to act like a princess. The story goes something like, “The princess waits high up in her castle waiting to be rescued by her Prince Charming (thats me). This ‘prince’ has to cross the treacherous lands, fight all the battles, storm the castle, slay the dragon and THEN he gets the princess.”

It’s a pretty cool story, really. Prince Charming doesn’t just walk up to the castle doors, spit a little game, and off they go to happy ever after. You’re a PRINCESS. You’re worthy of a fight. If you give yourself to someone who isn’t willing to fight for you, he isn’t worthy to be with you. Your prince charming isn’t going to fight to take your purity, he is going to fight to protect it.

Don’t settle for me, make me go to work. Don’t let me sweep you off your feet without putting in any work. Remember, I have to “cross treacherous lands, fight all the battles, storm the castle, slay the dragon and THEN,” I get the princess. Make me go to work. Don’t let me have you easy. You deserve a gentlemen. You deserve chivalry. Do not settle. There are going to be a lot of guys who come through who might look like me, they might be dressed like me, and they might talk like me, but if they don’t put in the work like me, they don’t deserve you like me. I am out here waiting for you, don’t settle for someone who doesn’t deserve you. Don’t settle.

Our fairy tale will happen, but remember it doesn’t go from ‘once upon a time’ to ‘happy ever after.’ There is a battle that goes on in those middle chapters.Sometimes I am going to mess up. Sometimes you are going to mess up. I am going to say things I don’t mean and mean things I don’t say. Sometimes I will forget that you are a princess and sometimes I will get distracted. But, together, through love, patience, communication, and the grace of God, we are going to win.

I understand I might have written this a little late, but I don’t care who you were yesterday, I care who you are today and who you will be tomorrow. Make a change if you need to. Let us grow together. It is not too late. It doesn’t matter what you’ve done or how many of these items you have missed, it just matters what you are going to do now! You are beautifully and wonderfully made by the hands of a perfect Creator, live like it!

~Prince Charming~"
credit to Jaime Morales Fuentes

Biggest Brain Damaging Habits

Biggest Brain Damaging Habits 1. No Breakfast People who do not take breakfast are going to have a lower blood sugar level. This leads to an insufficient supply of nutrients to the brain causing brain degeneration.


Biggest Brain Damaging Habits 2. Overeating It causes hardening of the brain arteries, leading to a decrease in mental power.


Biggest Brain Damaging Habits 3. Smoking It causes multiple brain shrinkage and may lead to Alzheimer disease.


Biggest Brain Damaging Habits 4. High Sugar consumption Too much sugar will interrupt the absorption of proteins and nutrients causing malnutrition and may interfere with brain development.


Biggest Brain Damaging Habits 5. Air Pollution The brain is the largest oxygen consumer in our body. Inhaling polluted air decreases the supply of oxygen to the brain, bringing about a decrease in brain efficiency


Biggest Brain Damaging Habits 6. Sleep Deprivation Sleep allows our brain to rest. Long term deprivation from sleep will accelerate the death of brain cells.


Biggest Brain Damaging Habits 7. Head covered while sleeping Sleeping with the head covered increases the concentration of carbon dioxide and decrease concentration of oxygen that may lead to brain damaging effect.


Biggest Brain Damaging Habits 8. Working your brain during illness Working hard or studying with sickness may lead to a decrease in effectiveness of the brain as well as damage the brain.


Biggest Brain Damaging Habits 9. Lacking in stimulating thoughts Thinking is the best way to train our brain, lacking in brain stimulation thoughts may cause brain shrinkage.


Biggest Brain Damaging Habits 10. Talking Rarely Intellectual conversations will promote the efficiency of the brain.

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Nurse On Duty 2!!!

being a nurse is not all about money...

Money isn't enough to pay for our presence for dying patients. Money can't buy our dignity in washing and cleaning butts. Money can't ease the pain we feel being blamed by relatives of patient who has died. Nobody can pay us for the pain and shame we feel when doctors shout at us. And we spent hundred thousands of pesos taking up nursing then end up with a low paying job..

Visit: Nurse On Duty 1!!!

nurse on duty 1!!!

I realized that being a nurse is incomparable... As we care for our patients, I learn how to cover my sorrow with smile. I learn how to stay vigorous despite of all the tasks that I endure. I learn how to give hope eventhou mine are unclearly seen. I learn how to give strength even at times I am the one who are weak. Nobody would know what kind of a life nurse has...Unless he/she becomes one.

Prayer before WORK

This past few days i am so exhausted regarding my work, so many deadlines, expectations and even on how you will handle your whole day ahead.

Mahirap magtrabaho lalo na kung hindi mo gusto ang ginagawa mo o mas worst kung hindi ka na masaya sa trabaho. May mga pagkakataon na napapa-isip ako kung kailangan ko bang mag stay pa sa kasalukuyang trabaho ko. Pero naiisip ko na kailangan kong pagyamanin kung ano ang meron ako, maraming naghahangad na magkaroon ng trabaho. Samantalang ako eto nararamdaman ko na hindi na ako masaya sa ginagalawan kong trabaho. Kailangan ko bang magresign para humanap ng ibang work,kung saan mas masisiyahan ako sa pag tatrabaho? Pero paano pag wala akong nahanap n mapapasukan? Yan ang mga bagay na gumugulo sa aking malabnaw na utak. And i just want to share to you the prayer that i always read before work. I hope this little prayer will help you in a different way.

Prayer Before Work

Lord, as I start the day, let me remember how blessed and lucky I am to be in my job. Remind me to be grateful for the work that I do, the people I meet and the wage I receive. Keep me cooperative with both my employer and co-worker. If I have to complain, make me think first of common good and later of my own welfare. Help me to be honest in my dealings and to be responsible in doing tasks assigned to me. Make me aware that in my work, I bring Your work into completion. And make me a blessing to other. Amen.


I hope this little pray will help you folks. You can copy and print that prayer and post it on your table.

oi, nandito pa ako ha..

sobrang natagalan ata ang aking pag babalik sa mundo ng blogging, ang may salarin itong INTERNET CONNECTION ko waaaaaaa badtrip, may sapak ata itong IC namin, minsan ang bilis bilis, minsan ang bagal daig pa ang dial up na connection.tsk.tsk.tsk

nakakatuwa talagang magbasa ng mga blog ng my blog, ang daming kong natututunan, iba ibang mga sariling prinsipyo ang aking na oobserbahan, kanya kanyang style sa pag po-post ng entry, my mga pagkakataon na hindi ako sumasang ayon sa mga post ng ibang blogger, pero nakakaaliw paring basahin astig parin. minsan may nadalaw akong isang site ng blogger, nakakaaliw magbasa ng mga old post nila yung tipong virgin na virgin sa pag popost ng mga entry,lolz.. pero ngayun mga malulupet na ang mga site nila.

pero nitong mga nakaraang araw madaming akong iniisip, stress sa work, stress sa mga tao na nakapaligid sa akin, stress sa mga co-workers, stress sa mga pasyente na makukulit, minsan shock absorber ka sa galit ng mga pasyente syempre sino ba ang unang haharap sa pasyente at sino bang madalas makita ng mga pasyente syempre hindi naman Doctor kundi kaminng mga nurses..... pero it is so ironic for me kasi this past few days nag hahanap ako ng scholarship or sponsorships, im planning to take up Proper Med, if God permits na makahanap ako ng scholarship or sponsorships as early as possible i will go and enroll to Medical School. TULUNGAN nyo naman ako kahit sa Prayer ha. hehehe.and if ever na may alam kayo na nag susopport sa pag aaral let me know ha hehehe. and of course LET HIS WILL BE DONE parin.

siya nga pala salamat sa mga bloggerista at bloggeristo na walang sawang pagdaan sa aking munting tahanan. kahit minsan ay inaamag na ang aking post.lolz

Bad Trip!! Puting Puti!

..........ang hirap naman ng kalagayan ko lalo na pag umuulan minsan nga kahit hindi umuulan, e kasi naman ang uniform kong all white ang inaalala ko.

.......... Malinis at maayos kang aalis sa bahay, mabango, pati ang semikalbo kong buhok inaayos ko pa lolz pero pero pero.... badtrip madudumihan, mapuputikan, mababasa, papangit ano ba yan. bakit ba kasi all white pa ang uniform ng mga nurse, ang linis nga tignan, kagalang galang kung titignan pero sa likod ng mga papuring eto ay ang pag-aalala kung ano ang gagawin ko para hindi madumihan ang kulay puti kong uniform. Sasakay sa jeep, tricycle o sa bus papano pag ang naupuan mo eh basa, madumi, may kalawang ang lintik nga naman oh.
..........pag dating sa Hospital o Clinic matatalsikan ka ng dugo dugo, betadine,o gamot hay buhay. Pero anong magagawa ko e eto ang kailangan kong isuot araw araw.

..........Lumabas tuloy na reklamador ako nito.lolz