Thursday, February 9, 2012

Judging a person doesn't define who they are. It defines who you are.




               Naka upo ako sa isang waiting area sa Ospital habang nag hihintay na matawag ang pangalan ko para mag pa check up ng mata. Madaming tao akong nakikita, palakad lakad, tatayo, uupo, nag babasa ng dyaryo , umiinom ng kape, nag kakalikot ng celllphone, may nagkukuwentuhan, nag tatawanan at may nag iisa lang (madalas akong mag isa sa lahat ng lakad) hindi dahil sa wala akong kaibigan, mas gusto ko lang talagang mag isa madalas.

               Ilang beses na ba tayong na husgahan ng ibang tao dahil sa uri ng ating pananamit, pagsasalita, kilos at direksyon sa buhay, sa musika na pinapakinggan mo,kung anong hitsura mo, kung paano ka makitungo sa ibang tao, kung sino ang mag sinasamahan mong grupo ng tao sa bagay ganun din naman tayo madali nating husgahan ang isang tao batay sa nakikita lamang natin.

               Masakit mahusgahan ka ng ibang tao batay lamang sa kanilang pamantayan, at sigurado eto ang sasabihin mo "OK lang di naman totoo" pero deep in side masakit parin ang mahusgahan ng hindi totoo, apektado ka parin kahit papaano.


               Sinasabi sayo ng mga tao na maging totoo ka "be yourself" pero sa kabila ng pagpapakatotoo mo huhusgahan ka naman nila napaka ironic.  Kahit ako mismo dumadating sa puntong nanghuhusga ng isang tao base lamang sa nakikita ko, alam ko mali. Pero naiisip ko judging a person doesn't define who they are.  It defines who you are. Tama hindi ba?  


               Bawat isa sa atin may mga sekreto na hindi masabi kahit gustong ng sabihin.  Bawat
isa ay may mga nakaraan na walanng nakakaalam.  Bawat isa ay may talento na hindi na papansin ng ibang tao.  Bawat isa sa atin ay may kahinaan na natatago at ayaw ipaalam.  Bawat isa sa atin ay may mga kwento ng buhay na pilit binubura sa ala-ala marahil ito ay masakit. 
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Unless you know the story


You see that boy rushing to do his homework in his homeroom?
-- He was at his little sister's side all night during her asthma attack.


You see that girl with makeup everywhere?
-- She's insecure about how she looks and how boy see her.


See that boy, with the long hair and cuts on his arms?
-- He doesn't cut himself because he is emo, but because he could have stopped his mom's death.


See that girl with the shaved head?
-- She's not crazy.  Her best friend has breast cancer.


See him with the bruises on his face?
-- He didn't lose a fight, his dad beat him.


See her with cheap clothes?
-- Her parents got laid of and haven't have a job for a few months.


See the boy over there, biting his nails?
-- He's nervous for a call that is going to tell him if he is a father or not.


See her on the computer?
-- She's not unsocial she is just escaping the world where she is hurt day after day.


See the boy who is always seen at parties drunk?
--His parents both died, no one has stepped in to watch him.


See that girl who is always smiling and laughing?
--She goes home and falls asleep at night by crying.


See your best friend?
-- She is addicted to drugs.  But she can't tell you because you won't understand.


See the girl over there, always holding a phone at her side?
-- She isn't addicted to texting.  She's waiting to hear if they found her kidnapped little brother.
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Matthew 7
Judging Others 
1“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. 3“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5
You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.

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7 comments:

  1. yeah right. lahat tayo may sekreto.at lahat din tayo ginagawa ang lahat para maitago 'to. syempre! sekreto eh! haha

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  2. Kinikilabutan ako habang binabasa ko toh. Nagsisink-in lahat ng mga nagawa kong mali sa iba. napakadali lang talaga mag-jugde ng isang tao. I remember yung isa sa mga pinost ko ng paulit-ulit sa fb "people's criticism on me doesn't actually reveals what kind of person i am.. coz in reality,it reveals what kind of person they are..." (hinanap ko pa talaga sa timeline.hehe). Yung pinaka-masakit kasi talaga don, yung jinajudge ka ng mga taong hindi ka kilala. Sabi mo nga, at tama ka, "hindi naman totoo" pero deep inside affected ka. One time ang reaction ko sa mga sinasabi ng iba sakin "who cares?", yung friend ko reply niya "you do friend.". hehe. Maxado talaga akong natouch ng post na toh. pa-share sa fb ha. hehe

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  3. The world is a mirror and people judge others according to their own reflections.

    Jheng, thanks for sharing this.

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  4. very nice.. in a way im guilty.. how sad.

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  5. i agreee on this post.... dont jugde the pipol base on what u see!

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  6. Hi I really like this one! sobrang totoo. =)I'm not perfect though, but I do my best.

    By the way ako rin I had my check ups alone and I do get stares. I even watch movies alone. =)

    nice blog.

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