Every one of us experiences rejection at point time in our lives, be it from work, school, relationship or another person. When you are afraid that you might be rejected, you go on pleasing others so that no one should develop a negative opinion about you. You are extremely dishonest with yourself and you tend to become habitual liar.
If you believe that you can take care of your own needs well and be happy even if you are alone, then being alone is nothing to fear. If you believe that you need others to take care of you and "make" you happy, then you are too dependent on others and their absence is something to "panic" about.
Realize that only losers avoid rejection.
Stop worrying about what others think of you.
Do not be a "people pleaser".
There is an end to the pain.
Don't take it personally.
Learn and move on.
Turn rejection into acceptance.
Remember…If we continually hold back from interacting with people because of our fear of rejection, we simultaneously miss out on the potential happiness, warmth, fun and excitement that other people can bring to us.
Do not ever be afraid of rejection in life. If someone rejects you, take that as a challenge to prove yourself. Don't let other people dictate your identity.
haay...tama...i can relate...hehehe!!!
ReplyDeletescary yang rejection...
ako nga ina-isolate ko na sarili ko..
nyahahaha!!!!!
...when you are afraid that you might be rejected, you go on pleasing others so that no one should develop a negative opinion about you.
ReplyDelete-zebzeb
That, up there, is what you call compensation. Though in my own honest opinion, we never should be tucked in with the "feeling" of rejection. Feelings are passing, yet they received a high societal recognition. So I must say its part of living but I also believe that feelings are fleeting. So why live to what others might say or think about you? Rejection is part of life. Yeah, what a cliché! but is true, not only to me but also to you. Hmmm, so live the person whom you are not as what others tell you to be.
Wait. Am I making sense?
I sounded like my 4008 professor. Haha
Yeah. Rejection is part of life. ika nga, You can never please everyone. I think all of us will experience or has already experience that at some point. Just think positive. Life goes on. hehe
ReplyDeleteJust My humble Opinion. hehe
Monz Avenue
korak!!
ReplyDeletewow, very good point. rejections are unavoidable so learn to deal with it, after nyan sanay ka na and you'll be surprise mas braver and confident ka pa!
ReplyDeleteJoyce"""
ReplyDeletetama ka scary talaga yung rejections, we tend to isolate our self when rejections comes our way. i think joyce that is a normal reaction we used to do, which is to isolate our self.
marxlin"""
ReplyDelete"So why live to what others might say or think about you? Rejection is part of life"
sometimes we tend to be a PEOPLE PLEASER isn't it?
thanks professor for dropping by (lolz)
mon"""
lahat tayo naka experience nyan. tama ka be optimistic. Thanks for your very HUMBLE opinion salamat pare.
amor"""
may yama ka!!! lolz
wow, very good point. rejections are unavoidable so learn to deal with it, after nyan sanay ka na and you'll be surprise mas braver and confident ka pa!
ReplyDeletechyng"""
hindi nga talaga natin maiiwasan yung rejections. at the end of the day its up to us if we are going to let people rule our own world.
who knows someday you will emerge as a BETTER person.
Rejection leads us to a stronger person... go lang nang go!
ReplyDeletetama nga naman. mahirap nga lang tnggapin pag bago pa lang.
ReplyDeletemarco"""
ReplyDeletego go go un un eh.
haringsablay"""
it hurts talga sa una, its up to us nadin if we are going to indulge our selves into a deeper depression.
we can't please everyone..
ReplyDeletenormal lang 'yang mga rejection na yan..
pasasaan ba't may ma.aachieve ka rin..
jelai"""
ReplyDeleteas what my brother told me, mostly ang mga succesful person ngayun ay dumaan ng madaming rejections. tignan mo asan sila ngayun, ayun at tinatamasa ang mga succes nila. tama diba. nice nice
wow zeb! such a wonderful posting about rejection...it's so true people tend to please others just to accept them - that' was me too when I was young but when I met the Lord everything changes from man pleaser to God pleaser!...tc
ReplyDeletechalllenges are meant to make us better---not bitter....yun lang masama if rejection would turn you into something ugly-----
ReplyDeleteRejection, rejection, rejection yon ang ayaw kong maexperience sa buhay ko at age 18-26 pero ngayon strong na ako! I don't care kung e rereject nila ako! Sino ba naman sila d ba? Hindi ko kawalan at hindi naman ako magmumukhang kawawa kung gusto nilang i-reject ako. Kaya deleted na ang work na "reject" sa buhay ko ngayon pinalitan na ng " I dont care" 'yon 'yon eh tama o mali?
ReplyDeleteWOw Zeb! I sure appreciate this post of yours..
ReplyDeleteTotoong masakit ang feeling ng na-reject.. but it's ours how we'll take it and conquer that feeling.. I think this is too much to say, pero sa totoo lang marami na 'kong na-reject na tao, and it hurts more for me.. Hindi ko gustong manakit ng iba but I guess thats how the world works..Learning is an inevitable thing.:)
By the way, good choice of song.. Love it from the very first time na narinig ko 'to.. It's so moving..hehe
Cheers Zeb, nakakamiss kakulitan mo sa blog..Ingatz!
Kelan ka pa pala nag-iba ng bahay mo? Tagal kong nawala dito eh, tagal mo kasing magparamdam..Is this post got something to do with you? Just asking..;)
ReplyDeleteGod bless!
darkhorse"""
ReplyDeletethanks for the compliment DH, i like what you said "Lord everything changes from man pleaser to God pleaser!"---this really makes sense to me.
PUSANG-gala"""
at the end of the day its up to you if you are going make rejection rule your world.
Dylan"""
ReplyDeletesalamat sa pagdaan DYLAN, sino ba naman ang hindi masasaktan pag nireject ka ouch it hurts yopu know. Ako din ayo ko talga ng my nirereject din na tao, masakit yun for them and also for me.
Switchfoot fanatic din ako, i really like the meaning of the song I Dare You to Move. God wants us to make something that will going to make an impact in our world. He dares us to move isn't it?
waaaaaaa makulit daw si zeb hehehehe.
ireport"""
ReplyDeletenice outlook in life" deleted na ang word na "reject" sa buhay ko ngayon pinalitan na ng " I dont care"
Dylan"""
ReplyDeletemedyo bago bago lang itong bahay ko Dylan. Yup this post in a way has something that i experience before.